Choose the destination
Set Your Course
Clarify what matters, where you want to go, and why change matters now.
Peer-centered • Skills-based • Secular & inclusive
Brave Harbor Recovery creates structured, respectful spaces where people can speak honestly, learn practical tools, and build a recovery path that belongs to them.

What Brave Harbor is
Brave Harbor is an independent peer-support and recovery-education community for people changing substance use, compulsive patterns, and other behaviors that no longer fit the life they want.
We combine honest conversation, practical exercises, personal responsibility, and community connection. No labels are required. Passing is always allowed. Listening counts.
Brave Harbor is secular and welcomes all beliefs and no belief. It does not diagnose, provide psychotherapy, manage detoxification or medication, or replace licensed medical, mental-health, crisis, or emergency care.
The Brave Harbor framework
Five memorable stages turn “I am overwhelmed” into “I know my next safe step.”
Choose the destination
Clarify what matters, where you want to go, and why change matters now.
Read the conditions
Notice urges, triggers, thoughts, emotions, stress, and changing conditions.
Steady the helm
Pause, examine the moment, and choose the next helpful action.
Use the crew
Build support, communicate needs, maintain boundaries, and accept help.
Build a safe harbor
Create stability, routines, purpose, balance, and a life worth protecting.
Ways to enter the harbor
Programs are designed for individuals, families, facilitators, and community partners, with clear boundaries and participant choice.
Facilitated online groups with check-ins, guided discussion, practical tools, and respectful boundaries.
Explore meetings →Original SAILS tools for urges, triggers, choices, shame, support, relapse prevention, and planning.
Browse resources →Support without rescuing, controlling, diagnosing, or losing personal boundaries.
Learn more →Meeting structure, original materials, ethical boundaries, and quality standards for responsible delivery.
Partner with us →Tools for real life
Every tool is designed to strengthen awareness, choice, accountability, and connection—without turning a setback into an identity.
Explore the tool libraryTrace the path from trigger to thought, feeling, urge, choice, and consequence.
Slow the surge, create time, and lower emotional intensity before acting.
Compare short-term relief with the longer-term direction you want.
Identify people, places, routines, boundaries, and emergency steps that protect recovery.
Review setbacks with accountability, curiosity, self-respect, and a plan to recommit.
“We do not sell perfection. We practice returning.”
Small steps beat perfect intentions.
Our brave space
People deserve a place to land.
My recovery remains mine.
Progress is built through choices.
Honesty without deliberate harm.
Support without rescuing.

Founder & program director
Jose Venegas Padilla created Brave Harbor Recovery to turn recovery from a vague idea into a visible course of action: one meeting, one tool, and one decision at a time.
The vision is online-first and broad enough to serve English- and Spanish-speaking communities, collaborate with established organizations, train facilitators, and publish original recovery resources.
Read the founder story →What you can expect
People can show up honestly, participate at their own pace, and use what helps.
Participation is voluntary. Passing is allowed. Advice is not forced.
We encourage confidentiality while being honest about its practical limits.
No religious belief, prayer, or spiritual language is required to participate.
Questions before you join
Clear expectations protect participants, facilitators, and the integrity of the program.
No. Brave Harbor is secular and inclusive. People of every faith, spiritual perspective, and no faith are welcome, but religious participation is never required and meetings are not built around religion.
No. Brave Harbor focuses on behaviors, choices, tools, values, and goals. Participants choose the language that fits their experience.
No. Brave Harbor provides general recovery education and structured peer support. It does not provide diagnosis, psychotherapy, medical treatment, detoxification, medication management, or emergency response.
No. Participation is voluntary. Passing is always allowed, and listening is a valid form of participation.
Yes. Brave Harbor can support partner programs through original materials, facilitator development, structured groups, and quality standards.
Take the next safe step
Ask about meetings, resources, facilitator development, family education, or organizational partnerships.